New Episode: The Hidden Cost of Never Enough


Hey Reader,

The drive that built your success can be the same thing that caps it.

My guest this week, Jason Connell, was a professional magician by the age of 18 and a sold-out speaker a decade later. Both times, he was professionally successful and personally miserable.

Today he's a licensed therapist and author of When Success Isn't Enough, but most importantly feeling like he’s living his most authentic life. He learned the hard way that sometimes you have to rewire what success means to your current self instead of a previous version of you.

In this episode:

  • The four attributes of most high achievers, and how hard work can mask what still needs attention
  • Jason's question for hard moments
  • Why "self-leadership isn't selfish," and what AI can and can't do for self-understanding
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There’s a moment from the conversation with Jason that I'm still chewing on. He encourages us to ask someone who knows us well, "What's something I don't seem to understand about myself that I really should?" Then be ready to hear the answer.

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PS: If this conversation hits home, Jason's book goes deeper. You'll find it at https://jasonconnell.co/.

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